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Restless: Reeling mind

Been a while since I tried writing.. 11:43 by my watch. It might take longer to post, because I’ve so much to put on this clean slate. But on the other hand, I’m coming all blank. As it is already, my chaotic mind decided to remind me that it is still a living and breathing entity on its own.

I chose this topic to share my opinions because, we all reach there at one or another point in our life; time and time again. Its about to be 26th January and being a Nepali makes you lucky and accepting to everything, doesn’t it? Soon, it will be time to say Goodbye to the year 2080 and welcome 2081.

Each day is slipping through our fingers like sand. Some days we want to hold on to that sand as tight as possible without knowing that we’re actually letting it slip more speedily. Humans are fickle, aren’t they? Its our nature after all. We know everything but acceptance is not welcomed in our life.

And to refute, just so that we can have satisfaction of some moments only to come to the almighty, so that he can guide us better. So, here I am. At the beginning of a new day, with a mind with reeling thoughts. Its exactly as attempting exams. Where we have to choose the most appropriate answer . Where the options are related to each other and nothing seems wrong. However, only one is supposed to be correct.

If only I could be a student one more time.. oh the wistfulness. Alas! I don’t have the ultimate solution of this , i.e., time machine. But, look at the bright side, these precious moments let me welcome a New day with new hopes and rambling about my confusions has soothed my restlessness to some extent.

So, its time to end my ramblings here so that I can bring something better forward pretty soon..

Silence: Craved Peace or Unraveled Conversation With Oneself?

Hello there dear readers and visitors.. Hope its going well with you. Its been a while since I’ve updated something like this here on this site. And believe me, I’m feeling like I am waking up from a long deep sleep. But, I felt like this is something I should definitely ramble about. So, here I am.

‘Silence’.. who doesn’t crave for it in the world full of chaos and cacophony? I do and in hopes of releasing some of those inner noises I came here to ramble. Right now, when I’m sitting near my window letting the nature play its tricks on me and as these few moments of silence are with me, I realised that this is what I was basically craving for. Silence so that my thoughts can speak and come out.

As the title of this blog suggests that how someone takes the silence surrounding them it will become exactly that. So, I think its us from the beginning till the end. Right? Life is such a fickle thing that it keeps making us reach at the crossroads unless we decide for ourselves what to choose. Isn’t it humorous that the answers are within us and we look for them outside. I think its too noisy up here that’s why the out noises are less bothering for us.

So, why not just take a deep breath and close our eyes and let those silent moment decide themselves that what they want to be for us: A source of peace or an inner monologue? Why not trust that little voice which can bring you the eventual peace if you work along with it instead of against it. Just have faith and talk to yourself. The answers are just there. If not at the surface, then they’re deep within you. We all have those two keys, i.e. silence and patience. So, let’s keep trying which key fits in our situation to unlock a better way! Not a bad idea.. I hope so?

Oh! Look at the time it flew just like that. So, with no promises of return but hopes to keep rambling it’s time to take a pause. Au revoir!!

Changes

Hello there! Dear fellow humans and readers. How are you all? I hope you guys are doing fine. First of all, I want to complete a task by wishing you all HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY. Today, let’s make sure that this precious person can feel amazing or top of the world, shall we? Ever wondered, what is that which is the most bitter and truthful thing? What’s that which if anyone tries to accept wholeheartedly can live peacefully but if not, then it will try to make one accept its importance and fixture in their life, quite loudly and obnoxiously? Yup, if you were able to reach there by connecting the dots with today’s topic.. Then, its the ‘truth of change.’

They say, nothing is trurer and more constant than change. weird, isn’it? I mean, a human is considered as the most possessive creation of the God. They can die to protect the one thing which is loved by them most deeply and intensely or it can turn the other way around. However, the god is still the Boss here. Right, its like he wants to say, “Do whatever you want, but when the wave of change will come then its going to be mightier than your skill of possession.” Every day someone is going or coming into the world to keep the balance with the tagline of ‘the show must go on.’

A whole platform is prepared for us to play our roles and exit when the curtain falls. Therefore, is anything which can’t ever be avoided is: Change. But, look at the irony, this change unintentionally brings out the worst fear of losing one’s possession. Its like the god wants to have his own entertainment by watching his own show. Where everyone knows everything but, they won’t act on it. The hold on the sand is unfruitful, isn’t it? The tighter the grip is, the quicker it slips away. And everyone knows about it. One day, we’re goofing around with our group of ‘BFFs’ and the other day, we’re rummaging through our closets to select the best formal outfit to set our first impression.

Time is flying with its humongous wings and nothing can be done about it, except being the part of the change instead of fighting tooth and nail against it. They say, no matter how good of a swimmer you are; you’ll get exhausted if you keep swimming in the opposite direction of the waves. Because, you’ll have to put whole lot of more effort to fulfill that task to some extent. Then, at last when your reserves will get exhausted the mighty waves will catch up to you.

So, I guess its ok to relax for awhile and have a bucket of popcorn in your hands to enjoy the ride to reach our destination. Sacrifices, wounds, healing and many other factors are part of this race. Which will only help us to learn and move ahead. Later on, it’d become some kind of batch for us as a proof of surviving one more day of this beautiful and eventful journey.

Oh! Will you look that the time, it actually flies to make itself the part of the constant truth. Its time to depart from this topic and rest my words here on a cheerful and thankful note by saying a huge THANK YOU which is directly and honest to the God coming from the bottom of my heart. I can’t appreciate enough all those readers, who have given their precious time to drop into this site and spare their moments to my ramblings. So, see you soon! After some pause. Signing off from here, to take a new journey of exploration so that I can give a shape to my ramblings.

Antagonist: Hateful or pitiful?

Hello there dear readers!! Hope you’re doin’ fine .. Coz, I’m doing fine here. Its like after a break some floodgates have been opened and things are just clicking on the place. ah! The ups and downs are still here. But, I think myself as a multitasker. So, I’m gonna roll with it. So, let’s jump to the topic and apology in advance for getting outta topic as I tend to do that alot.

So, as today’s topic is as clear as a sunny day. I’m gonna speak about antagonists of any story. As a disney and marvel universe fan I like to watch the movies and series alot. However, just out of their regular context of making the protagonists overpowered or too demsel in distress. The writers make the antagonists write and portray them too shady. Don’t you think so?

Let’s take an example of story ‘Snowhite’. Oh! The sweet girl who is too beautiful for her own good. A mother who sadly is taken away from her. A father who wants to fill the void of a maternal love in his lovely daughter’s life. Hence, remarries and settles down. Now, we know a concept of marriage is brought with lots of reassurances and promises. Otherwise, he could’ve hired a full time nanny for his dear daughter. And, finally enters the stepmother, a woman who was reassured with the protection of a man. But, Alas.. he dies as well.. Oh, universe!! Why’d you do that?

Now, we all might have heard ‘blood is thicker than water’ at some point of our life, haven’t we? Ain’t it true as well? All the knowledge of justice and scriptures is on one hand and being a tadbit biased with your own blood is only natural. So, how wouldn’t anyone feel insecure from their better. The books and movies they always portray the protagonists; no matter they are male or female, either too overpowered or too fragile. And it is just the tip of the iceberg. Most of the time they are too sweet and gentle in nature that it’d most assuredly give the readers or viewers some cavity.

While, on the other hand, the antagonists are made too dark that the parents would warn their children to not become like them in future. Hmm! Maybe, that’s why our perspective is like that? We have been taught from the very young age to look through everything in ‘black’ and ‘white’ shades. And, that’s why when one grows up and when they need to deal with too many colours and natures, they get the whiplashes of life.

Something new to wonder about? Whatchu’ think? Having mercy on antagonist because insecurity could embrace anyone, couldn’t it? Because, you know these positive and negative emotions are not taught to look into the world by wearing ‘black’ and ‘white’ shades.

So, that’s it for now, thank you so much for dropping in and giving your precious time to my ‘ramblings’. If they’re liked and understood by you, please make sure to share them. Because, I really think that if I can conect with some of the people on any level then I can definitely connect with few more. Au revoir!! A bientot!!

Conflicts

Hey there! My dear readers and viewers.. How are you all? I hope you all are doing fine. It’s been awhile since I had written something; so, yeah my hands are shaking.. But they say one should always do something which is therapeutic for them. Its like a therepy with not so normal steps. Well, you know this piece of writing is not going to be more than a method of ‘me answering to myself.’ Being a part of a circle called ‘life’ is not easy afterall.

Facades to maintain, smiles to bear so people don’t as you out of the loop question of you being fine and so on. It’s never ending but that’s what makes life not so monotonous, isn’t it? However, things become conflicting when too many doors are opened. There’s always a time when one blames the almighty that he has constricted them to move ahead with less options. But, on the very other hand when there are options we don’t wanna take risks and leave our ‘comfort zone.’

So, why do we feel like that? Is it something related to the universe or is it one more thing for us to blame on the ‘poor’ universe. A thing to wonder but nobody thinks its important enough to give their ‘precious’ time up on. And at last a small ‘Thank You’ to Mahadev for letting me have this time to pour my few snippets of thoughts.

Ah! How quickly time flies.. I just started to write. But, this is it for now… Au revoir.. A bientot!!

Serendipity

A very warm greetings to all my readers and viewers. I know quite late to drop in but you know they say if your mind is already a cluster of thoughts so you need to pause and think. So my thoughts lead me to ramble again. So, here I am again with my ramblings. It’s not easy to live life when your mind is home of so many words and thoughts. And so, I stumbled on a word ‘serendipity’ while I was reading. Yeah I know quite repetitive isn’t it? To stumble upon words and wonder about them..

So, what is serendipity? I get to know when I looked into it that serendipity is something which is quite relatable in our day to day life. I mean we are surrounded by coincidences aren’t we? Meeting people, passing greetings to them, conversing, losing focus and gaining a sudden sympathy for a character who we have never met in reality. All these are coincidences. Serendipity is also are the turn or combination of events which come together by chance and their outcomes turn out to be quiet good and memorable events.

Our life is full of such events as well. A human goes through so many phases in his life that nothing and nobody remains constant in his life. How many friends we must have made in our life. Some stay but others become nothing more than memories or souvenirs to keep in and grow with them. But outcomes are always waited and memorable. Without them we won’t be able to be shape ourselves into us today. Will we now? Let’s think what would have happened if Newton would have ignored the fallen apple like everyone else. Because, apples fall all the time nothing new there but to think that it will give birth to the concept gravity is totally a different level of thinking.

So, that is what is known as serendipity and us human beings and our life is the loop of serendipity. Nothing happens without reason.Each and every happenings of our life make us wonder that is it what suppose to happen or wouldn’t it have been good if situations were a bit better? But sometimes what more necessary is that let the things work on their own accord and give it a rest. So, that everything can fit perfectly just like missing pieces of a puzzle..

I guess it’s time to wrap up my ramblings. And, have something new to wonder about. So until then the only thing I can say is, Thank you so much for your patience and time which you spare here. So for now signing off from here. Au revoir. À bientôt.

Words..

Hello there everyone… First of all Happy Saturday to all of the viewers and readers. And a huge thanks for giving your time and support for this page. I mean when one’s cluster of words turn into ramblings and then when those ramblings are being heard, then it really means alot. So I was just going through my previous updates, and then I noticed that I forgot to include something most important aspect, which is; WORDS.

I mean daily we converse with so many people, but as they say focusing on big things always make the small things slip away. So, come to think about it, how words are important and what kind of role they play in our day to day life? Hmm, so, everything has two sides a good one and a dark one. We have right to speak our mind, but still we just don’t blurt it out in open most of the time. Do we? Reason, ‘with great power comes great responsibility.’ ! I know I know! I may sound like Peter Parker’s uncle Ben but truth can’t be denied.

If we have the right to speak and express then, our life gives us the crash courses on how to sweeten and power them. Strange no? How just a tad bit contact with our inner instincts and they will never let us wander astray. Like, how when we are attending someone’s wedding reception or baby’s name ceremony, we are not suppose to go and say that “Oh, I am so sorry your daughter is going away from you.” Or “Oh, so extravagence how much have you spent on arranging this ceremony.”

If someone says things like that to the host, then not only that person would be disappointed but the speaker of those terms would become a pariah in front of whole society. We are learning something new from people we meet everyday. And I am so thankful that I have been bestowed the chance to express my lessons to others in the gentlest way I can depart them.

So, that’s it for today I guess. And again my words will be very less no matter however I word them out to thank you for sparing your few minutes on my ramblings. So, signing off for the time being.. Au revoir… À bientôt…